Reading this tazkirah on tribulations from Nasiha.com,I immediately disqualify myself to add any further comments on this subject.Personally,I did suffer a few tribulations over the last four decades of my adult life but I know a few of my friends suffered more/worse than I did.Thank you Allah for your mercy on me..and please forgive me for my impatience.
Reading this note below reminds me when my late friend who confided in me that he got cancer(more than ten years ago) and he asked me,"Why me?".I did not reply because I did not have any answer to that.Three days ago,my schoolmate has lost his son who was sitting for his SPM now.I dare not call him,but just sent my condolence message via SMS and salam takziah through a friend.
Tribulations
We have heard many times a person bemoan, "I do not deserve this!" or "Why me?" or similar declarations. Many people live with the rancour in their hearts because of what they have been dealt with in life. This attitude toward trials stems from a denial of God's omnipotence and that God alone decrees all things. We cannot choose what befalls us, but we can choose our responses to the trials of life, which are inevitable.
It is important to look at the life of the Prophet, peace be upon him, and know that no one faced greater tribulation. The Prophet lived to see all of his children buried, except for Fatima. How many people experience that in their lifetime? His father died before his birth. His mother died when he was just a boy. His guardian grandfather then died. When he received his calling, he saw his people turn against him with vehemence and brutality. People who had once honoured him no slandered him, calling him a madman, liar, and sorcerer. They stalked him and threw stones at him until he bled. They boycotted him and composed stinging invectives against him. He lost his closest friends and relatives, like Hamza, who was killed on the battlefield. His beloved wife Khadija after 25 years of blissful marriage died during the Prophet's most difficult moment. Abu Talib, his protecting uncle, also died. The Prophet was the target of 13 assassination attempts. How many people have face all of that? Not once in a single hadith is there a complaint from him - except when beseeching his Lord.
Compiled From:"Purification of The Heart" - Hamza Yusuf, pp. 69- 72
Let's du'a:2:286
Allah places not burden on any soul but to the extent of his strength whatever good it earned is useful for it and whatever bad it earned is a loss for it. O our Lord! Catch not us if we forget or miss the mark! O our Lord! And place not heavy burden on us as you had placed on those before us. O our Lord! Put not that burden on us of which we have no strength to bear! And pardon us and forgive and have mercy on us. You are our Master; then help us against the infidels.
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