Today,my youngest son Munir joined a local univerity college to pursue his education to become a civil engineer. As a father I am glad that he decided to follow my foot steps to be a professional.I am indeed a happy man and grateful to Allah swt for His mercy upon him.May Allah guide him to seek knowledge that will benefit him personally and mankind in general.
Munir,
Today is the starting date for you to get a degree in civil engineering.From my personal experience, you will be exposed to basic foundamentals of engineering subjects that are relevant to your discipline.InsyaAllah, in four and half years from now you will graduate and start your career.From then on, you will work and hopefully you will learn from your experience and gains knowledge.
Today also is the first day that you begin your life to live in a hostel with other fellow students.For the last 17 years of your life,you live with your family.Naturally, you will miss your family; so are your mother and me. To pursue a goal, we all need to make some sacrifices in one way or another.C'est la vie..
If you remember some seven years ago,I wrote a letter to you before we celebrated your 11th birthday. If my memory is right, I wrote that I wished you will remain my 10-year old boy forever. That is how much we love you...but that is very selfish of me. You are now a fine young man.I am glad you grow up and please be informed that I am always available whenever you need a guide and a friend.
That is all for today.By the way,you know my mobile phone number and my email;-)
My best wishes to you my son,Munir.
Dear Pak Adib,
A touching note from father to son. Shows the depth of love. Had a lump in my throat after reading the letter to 10-year old Munir. Wished hubby and i can be good parents to our children as you are to yours....
Posted by: serendipity | Saturday, June 16, 2007 at 09:52 PM
Serendipity,
Thanks for taking time to write a note here.My eyes became wet reading that letter...
Posted by: Adib | Sunday, June 17, 2007 at 04:49 AM
Pak Adib,
Impossible is nothing ;-)
Posted by: manal | Sunday, June 17, 2007 at 10:00 PM
Manal,
I know what you meant.Nothing is impossible.
Posted by: Adib | Monday, June 18, 2007 at 05:10 AM
Dear Pak Adib,
Had the same reaction like serendipity. I am sure Munir still feel that he's the 10 years old boy inside because of ur great love and would never never forget the letter.
Posted by: rafidah ahmad | Monday, June 18, 2007 at 08:51 AM
yes,i remembered reading that letter and i too had a lump in my throat. The things we go through as parents ...and..children...Sigh...
Posted by: ann g | Monday, June 18, 2007 at 06:15 PM
assalamualaikum abedib,
selamat berjaya buat munir. saya dahulu seawal 13 tahun telah tinggal di asrama ni kuale kangsar.
Posted by: KNizam | Monday, June 18, 2007 at 08:53 PM
Terima kasih,KNizam.
Abedib pun mula tinggal di asrama sejak umur 13 tahun di SDAR, Tanjung Malim.
Posted by: Adib | Monday, June 18, 2007 at 09:32 PM
Assalamu'alaikum wrbkth
Tuan Haji & family
Alhamdulillah...as parents it's our duty to all our siblings. This is the 'trust' Allah SWT set upon us.. Allow us to share your happiness...His success is your success too...
To Munir..Syabas!..young man!.. We pray for your success all the way.. Just remember this, par-excellence requires patience, self-discipline, courage, adaptability, sheer hard work, but above all the PRAYERS & TRUST in ALLAH SWT.Armed with your families trust, love, hope and prayers, you will excell in all your undertakings. Ask yourself, are you prepared when the time comes for you to take up the mantle and show the way for a bright future??..
Uncle, auntie dan family tumpang gembira. Selamat maju jaya dan semoga ALLAH SWT sentiasa bersama Munir.
*Best wishes dari kami sefamili di London
Posted by: Pak Unggal | Wednesday, June 20, 2007 at 07:18 AM
Pak Unggal,
Thank you for taking time to write words of advice to my son Munir.And our thanks for your du'a.Munir is currently cut off from Internet as he is undergoing orientation week.I will let him know of your notes here when he is back this weekend.
Our salam to you and all your family members.
Posted by: Adib | Wednesday, June 20, 2007 at 02:01 PM