As parents,we must allocate time to observe what our children are doing and take time to talk to them. It is not enough for them to excel only in their academic achievement/success in their careers. Lately,I have seen too much improper behaviours...
It is better to start early when our kids are younger and old habits die hard.First is to find out their values by observing their daily lives and actions. Next is to have a really good conversations with our children from time to time.All of us are very busy with our own business and careers but I think we shall fail in our duties if we don't take time and make a real effort to instill good values and conduct for our own children.
To undertake such efforts,we ourselves must be knowledgable as well as be examples of good behaviours.
It is not easy being a father for the last 25 years. IMHO, our children need our guidance all the time. By the way, to be a good guide, we also must be guided.
Below is a portion of what I wrote on 26/11/2004:
Our children are 'amanah' from Allah swt to us.As parents,we must be
very concerned about our children aqidah,ibadah and aklaq.The 'tanggung
jawab' is very heavy indeed-'tanggung' mean responsible,'jawab' means
amswerable/accountable.
Below is a hadith for our reference:
Prophet Muhammad - the Final Messenger of God, may God bless him and give
him peace, reported that God the Exalted said: "I created My servants in the right religion, but the
devils made them go astray." (Reported in Sahih Muslim.) The Messenger of God, may God bless
him and give him peace, also said: "Each child is born in a state of fitrah, but his parents make him
a Jew or a Christian." (Reported in Sahih al-Bukhari and Sahih Muslim).
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